Cesarean Moms Mobilize in Support of One Another

Jan 15th 2010

Well, my post about Mominatrix’s sex book from the other day caused quite a week’s worth of uproar. This week, I watched the comments section of that post take on a life of its own, with mothers pouring in to share their stories about cesarean trauma, and offering support to other mothers.

Then today, after Mominatrix chose to address those women on her radio show by telling them to “have a giggle and get over it”, I saw women rise up, fight back, and express their hurt and anger over the insensitive comments made.

Tonight, Danielle from Momotics hosted a radio call-in show for mothers affected by cesarean, so they could have their voices heard. The response was huge.  Callers from across the country spoke up about their experiences, and how they have impacted their life. I’m so proud of my sisters (and brothers) who recognize birth trauma, talk about it, and help others try to cope with it.

What was absolutely astonishing to me is the speed in which mothers in the activist community, and mothers who need their help, banded together to speak out against an oppressive and hurtful voice.  This is the power of the internet, ladies and gentlemen.

If you want to see humanity at work, listen to the podcast of Danielle’s show called “Cesarean Moms Speak Out” below. Featured in the show are myself, Desiree Andrews (President of ICAN), Michelle from Birthcut.com, and a load of callers hurt by Mominatrix’s comments on her radio show.

Listen: “Cesarean Mother’s Speak Out”

And again, to my ICAN and cesarean sisters – you are not alone.  I hope this shows you.

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I can't even remember how I found your site - but I love what you have to say and I love the spirit of respectful and honest discourse, inquiry and sharing that is invited and cultivated here. Thank you.

@Kerry - Yeah, you're probably totally right. Certainly more people talked about her book this week than would have.

@Jennifer B - thank you for sharing your birth story - you're right, it is SO important. Good luck to you.
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Gina: Mominatrix is an idiot. But I do want to point out...do you think her idiocy has anything to do with increasing "controversy" as she attempts to self-publicize her book? Just a thought.

Hats off to you guys. Listened and loved. Amazing job.
.-= Dou-la-la´s last blog ..Training Your Team =-.

It was a fantastic show. I listened to the archive this morning, and absolutely loved how brave all the moms were in sharing their stories and how everyone was so supportive of each other. True mom-to-mom support. Made me consider opening an ICAN chapter where I live.
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I wanted to post here how much I enjoyed being able to call in last night and share... I wanted to share my whole birth story.

http://choicespirit.blogspot.com/2009/03/real-wome...

Seriously, writing my true birth story is the only thing that helped me move on from what happened. I am at the point now that rather than being a victim I want to share it! I want to get the word out so that others don't have to experience what I did.

ICAN helped go from victim to activist. I would encourage all women who were hurt by their birth to write their birth story so that they can move past what happened to them whether they have cesareans or not!

It was so amazing to see everyone call in, share their stories, and reach out to others. I hope we can do another show and let more mothers share their experiences!

Thanks for joining in Gina, it meant a lot to me!
.-= Danielle´s last blog ..If You Build It..... They Will Come =-.

The show was amazing. The strength that all the c-section moms showed in sharing their stories will never cease to amaze me.