This January will mark our 1 year anniversary of moving to cloth diapers. I have to admit that I originally made the move kicking and screaming. The idea of cloth seemed so overwhelming to me, and there are so many styles and types that I had no idea where to start. Every time I pulled up a cloth diaper website and saw a $25 diaper, I thought “Oh my god! I would need hundreds of dollars worth just to get through one day!” And then – there was the washing. As a working mom, a full time student, and with 2 kids to take care of with the few hours I was home in a day, did I really need one more thing to add to my To-Do list? No Thanks!
But no matter how many times I talked myself out of it, I kept coming back to the idea. Honestly, the sight of some friend’s babies with their adorabley cloth-clad bottoms made me think that there had to be a way. The cloth diapers were just too stinkin’ cute! (no pun intended.)
Then I stumbled on a cloth diaper package for $37.00, which included pre-folds diapers, Thirsties Covers, and a Snappi. That was a sum I could actually afford, and if I absolutely hated it, it was no big loss. So I decided to take the plunge and order 2 packages along with a few extra covers. One of my playgroup moms even hosted a cloth diaper meeting so I could see all the various styles and methods for putting them on baby. I also spent many days online watching tutorials on how to wash and use pre-folds, and by the time the diapers came I was ready to hit the ground running.
As it turned out, I loved using the cloth. They were easy to get on and washing them was not nearly the complicated chore I had envisioned. I loved how my sons looked in them, and I felt really good about not filling up landfills anymore. The husband was very happy with my purchase too, and our only regret was that we had waited until our second son was 8 months old to make the switch.
When I do something, I like to do all or nothing. I told myself that if we were going to make the switch, then we would never, ever buy disposables again. I wasn’t sure how realistic this was, but this thinking was more a financial one than some grand conviction. I just wanted to make sure that I got 24/7 use out of this. It was hard to convince my husband that moving to cloth would be cheaper in the long run anyway, so I felt pressure to keep my word.
But 3 weeks in, I realized that as well as the cloth diapers were working during the day, overnight was really a different story. They never leaked, but after 12 hours straight in the same diaper, the boys woke up smelling absolutely awful. Sometimes my younger child woke up only crying only because he was too wet and needed a change. That got me pretty down about the whole process, but I talked to some friends and realized that sometimes overnight is a pretty tall order for a cloth diaper, at least the kind I had, so some of them used disposables at night instead. I decided to cut myself a break and buy some disposables just for bedtime use only. That turned out to be just what the doctor ordered, and it made me feel so much better about taking on cloth mostly full time.
Our family went from using around 10-12 disposable diapers a day, to using only one per night for each boy. The whole transition was relatively painless, and I would encourage anyone interested to give it a try. Whatever obstacles you may believe exist, chances are, there’s a simple, easy solution. We’re saving money, the diapers are adorable, and we feel really good about limiting our contribution to the local landfill.
So how did you make the switch? I want to hear all about it.
We use cloth diapers too, and love them. We use pocket diapers, and for overnight, I just stuff an extra insert in them (I made the diapers out of old t-shirts and fleece sweatshirts, and I use prefold diapers as inserts). When he’s in his pj’s, our little guy has an enormous bubble butt from the huge diaper, but it holds up to the overnight task.
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I decided to make the switch with my second. I bought a few different kind of diapers to try out, and then I signed up for a diaper service. A lot of my friends use the service with a newborn, when they don’t feel like doing the laundry.
Honestly? I was not a fan of the service. It was WAY expensive, the diapers weren’t that great, and they only picked them up once a week so I always had a pretty full pail going. Within a few weeks I bought a bunch more diapers (mostly fitted and pocket diapers, which have worked for us), and I haven’t looked back.
(I will admit, the introduction of solids did make the whole thing a little less fun, but in for a penny in for a pound, right?)
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Have you heard about diaper swappers? It is a site for people to buy sell or trade used diapers. You can get great bargains on more absorbent cloth diapers than prefolds. Also, there are a lot of moms out there with great advice on how to handle cloth obstacles like overnights and stinky diapers and detergent build up. Check it out at http://www.diaperswappers.com/
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We cloth diaper our newborn daughter using a service. Not having insuite laundry it was a compromise between cloth and disposables that we could live with. Also, she was just a little over 5lb at birth so we didn’t want to buy cloth to fit such a tiny baby and then buy em again when she got bigger. Like you, though, sometimes we are tempted to use a disposable at night (shhh…don’t tell).
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Thanks Accidental Pharmacist. One of the reasons I included the bit about using disposables at night is that I wanted people to see that it doesn’t have to be all or nothing if you don’t want it to be. Every diaper change using a cloth saves one diaper from ending up in a landfill. There are certainly ways to do it 100% of the time, but if a parent can’t or doesn’t want to, then they should know it’s okay to use cloth at least part of the time. Better part time than no time!
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Like you did–I keep thinking about switching (we are still 100% disposable over here), but I just never seem to go through with it.
Have you ever sat down and figured out how much you are saving? Do you end up using the washing machine a lot more?
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If by some miracle i decide to have another kid i’d cloth diaper during the day at least.
I’m convinced that if i’d done that with Ewan it would have saved a lot of the toilet training nightmare. He didn’t get dry until 4 years and 3 months (that age will forever be etched in my mind), and no way, no how, would i want go through that again.
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We started with cloth. There was no service available in our area, so we decided to do it ourselves, and realized how much more choice is available when you go that way. For some reason prefolds intimidated me, and we ended up with bumgenius (and kissaluvs) which we loved. DS is now 18 mo old and still in the same one size diapers. We bought a hose attachment for the toilet to spray the poops off, and find the whole thing painless. We also starting using disposables for night time, and now that he is in child care a few days a week, he’s back to disposables for that (and disposables for traveling also – partially about convenience/ access to washer and dryer, and partially about how much darn space they take up in the luggage). We love it. DS has never had any trouble with diaper rash.
@Michele, I don’t know about cent per cent savings (though some diaper sites do the math for you), but as for the washer, we discovered that with 18 cloth diapers, we were doing the laundry the same amount as we would without the diapers. That is, that by the time we needed to do the diapers, we were ready for a load with baby clothes and our clothes. We put everything in together, though we often do a prewash with just the diapers and a generous helping of vinegar (a natural antimicrobial).
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This post is very timely for me — I just decided to try to make the switch and ordered a sampler pack of one-size pocket diapers to try out and see which ones we like best. My husband is skeptical that we can handle the additional laundry volume, esp. once I go back to work, but now that DS#2 is 4 months old and DS#1 is almost 2.5 and not yet showing signs of readiness for potty learning, seeing all the diapers we use is getting to me. So many of my friends/acquaintances are using cloth I decided I was way behind the times and needed to just do it already!
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The trick to keeping the stinky ammonia smell out of cloth diapers is a vinegar soak. Yup.
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@Betsy – we do vinegar, and baking soda, and rinse/rinse/rinse. Somehow just can’t get them to handle a full 12 hours. Makes sense. With disposables they have all those chemicals in there to keep the smell in – which cloth doesn’t. I did strip ours a few months ago when they started to smell after every single pee, and that fixed them right up. Still can’t go 12 hours though.
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I didn’t really make a switch in that direction. I started out with cloth diapers with our first son and continued using them with our second. I too, was shocked by the sticker price so I started making my own prefolds. Then I got a bunch of fitteds from a friend. Then I discovered flannel receiving blankets make great flat folds. I just had to sew a strip of terry on them so the snappis would work. I DID use disposables when we went out for the day and when my son started preschool (they wouldn’t allow the cloth). My older son in now out of diapers and my second is on his way. I used to ‘wet pail’ in water/apple cider vinegar. Now, I put the peed ones in the regular wash and do a quick rinse of the poopy ones after shaking said poop off into the toilet and keep those in a bucket under the bathroom sink w/ baking soda until wash time, usually about 3 times a week. I’m actually getting rid of most of my diapers. If oyu know a mom in need, i’ll give them to her for free if she can pay shipping.
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I started using cloth two months ago and haven’t regretted it. I was also overwhelmed by all the options, and then discovered there is a mom who sells cloth out of her home here in town. She sells pre-folds and covers, so I went with those because they were the least expensive start-up, my money stayed local, AND I supported a small business run by a mom. Like you, we use disposables at night.
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