Eating Only What Great-Grandma Would Recognize

Apr 06th 2010

A few weeks ago, my ICAN chapter invited a nutritionist/chiropractic guru to speak to our moms about pregnancy nutrition.  It turned out to be a great meeting. I’ve heard, and read, ad nauseum about what we shouldn’t be eating, but I’ve never really had someone give me permission TO eat, or furthermore, tell me WHAT to eat.  But this wonderful nutritionist broke it down in the simplest and most positive of terms.

  • Packaged foods are not really food.
  • If your great-grandmother wouldn’t recognize it as food, then it’s not real food.
  • You can’t go wrong with whole foods.
  • You can, and SHOULD, eat fat.
  • No. More. Dieting.
  • Eat every 3 hours, otherwise you’re sending your blood sugar on a roller coaster.
  • Vegetables at every meal.
  • As long as you make it yourself, it’s bound to be healthier than anything frozen or prepackaged from the store.
  • We ALL need to be taking supplements – good supplements – the kind derived from plants, nothing synthetic or filled with dyes.

I’ve heard these ideas being floated around before, but it really took a woman, much like me, sitting in front of me telling me that I didn’t need to diet to be at a healthy weight.  That’s actually great news because I SUCK at dieting.  Ever since the kids came along, I’ve really tried to be more aware of the food I’m bringing into this house, but it gets overwhelming.  I’m no cook, and the idea of buying all kinds of foreign spices and oils seems expensive, overwhelming, and, ultimately, like something I’d fail miserably at.

But the last time I went shopping, I decided that instead of buying food in a package, I’d try to buy the ingredients so I could make it myself.  I walked through the aisles and tried my hardest to only buy things that I was certain my great-grandmother could recognize.  I know – what a novel concept! There are many natural parents and foodies reading my blog, so you’re probably all staring at your screen in horror that I wasn’t doing this before now.  You have to understand that I just wasn’t raised to eat healthy, or to cook, or to even care, quite frankly.  I try my best, but it falls low on my priority list.

Oh, speaking of horror, when I told the nutritionist in front of the group about how I use at least two packets of Sweet N Low every day, they all gasped and recoiled, as if I’d told them I was mainlining antifreeze or something.  That was my kick in the pants to remove that little chemical from my diet.

So, at the grocery store, instead of buying the powdered tea that my Great-Grandmother certainly would not recognize, I decided to make iced tea myself.  It was actually much easier, and MUCH more delicious, than I thought it would be.  I used four ingredients – all four of which my great-grandmother would surely have used herself.

  • Teabags?  Check!
  • Sugar? Check!
  • Honey? Check!
  • Lemon? Check!

My great-grandmother would recognize all those things, and in fact, I bet this is exactly how she made sweet tea before “Crystal Light” came along.

Tea is a mainstay in our house.  It’s never not in our fridge.  The other mainstay is chocolate chip cookies.  We have a little ritual where, about twice a week, after we put the kids to bed, John and I sit down to watch some DVR’d TV, and he makes us some “Break ‘N’ Bake” cookies.

Of course, my great-grandmother wouldn’t know what the hell Break ‘N’ Bake cookies are, so instead I bought the ingredients to make cookies.  I have never even attempted to make cookies before in my entire life, so I had no idea how these would turn out.  Thankfully, that leap of faith paid off, big time!  Even though chocolate chip cookies aren’t exactly health food, I know these cookies are better for me than anything that came out of a package filled with preservatives and who-knows-what-else.  But besides just being a little better for me, they are also the BEST TASTING cookie I’ve ever had in my life.  I mean, c’mon – just look at ‘em! Break ‘n’ Bake ain’t never looked like that.  It also feels really good eating something that I was able to make with my kids.  I had no idea how much satisfaction I’d get out of putting some ingredients together in a bowl.  Now I understand why people do this – and enjoy it!

Many of my other experiments have paid off this week too.  I made us the world’s best fajitas the other night with some steak, freshly sliced stoplight peppers, and spicy guacamole.  It was so freaking delicious, we didn’t even need the cookies afterward.  And now that I know I can really do this, I’m going to push myself a little farther on the next shopping trip.

Before you know it, I’ll have turned myself right into one of those people who cooks, and eats, healthy!  Fancy that.

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Alright – your turn.  How do you eat?  Does everything come from the freezer section or out of a drive-thru window?  Or are you one of those people who has Flaxseed in your house and actually knows what to do with it?

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I used to make bread by hand and still do sometimes but my bread machine(a freebie from someone who ended up with two) is a life savor. There are six of us, four boys and we go through a 1 1/2 lb loaf of whole wheat bread everyday. With homeschooling and all the other stuff we do there is no way I could make bread everyday or even every other day if I had to do it by hand. I make all my specially breads by hand but life has been so much easier since the bread machine. I don't by mixes and there are tons of bread machine recipes online. It is a three hour(at least, depends on the type of bread) process to make bread by hand and then if our house is to cold it rises really slow. I would take a peek at craigslist to see if anyone is getting rid of one or selling one for really cheap:) We honestly like the "by hand" bread better, but my kids would rather spend time going to the library or playing at the park instead of watching and waiting for the bread to rise. I would definitely try making bread by hand because it is a lot of fun and a lost art, but know that bread machine bread is good too!

@klschicago - thank you! I was JUST wondering what I should do about bread because there's no way I want to buy another appliance, and my Gramma didn't need a breadmaker - right? I MUST look up some recipes for making my own because I am a BREAD-O-HOLIC... especially fresh bread. Mmmm.. nothing better. I could live on it.

I'll make this short & sweet. DO NOT BUY A BREAD MAKER! It is so easy and fun to make it "the old fashioned way", then you don't have to purchase the ready made mixes. Get your own flour. Sam's Club sells the yeast (in HUGE QUANTITIES for next to nothing). I found instructions on the net to make my own, now I make 2 loaves two times a week and it is the most amazing treat!
Good luck! This is a fun journey you are on...

I realized I didn't address meat. We eat meat because I live with three boys who are delicate flowers that will faint if they do not regularly eat the flesh of animals.

Buy on sale, buy in bulk, divide into 8oz-1 lb bundles, wrap well and freeze. Check your local stores for bargains and build meals around them. Buy whole chickens and cut them up for recipes. Or roast whole, and then pull the meat off to use in future meals. Rotisserie chickens are handy, but if you're concerned with price or food politics, a raw bird costs just 2-4 bucks compared to the 5-8 of a rotisserie bird. Choose organic, free-range, or grass-fed when you can.

When buying meat, don't look just at the price, think about how many meals you'll get out of it. We might have had a $14 roast on Sunday, but by the time it became enchiladas/tacos the next night and sheppard's pie the next, that $14 roast was cheap.

A little meat can go a long way: cut the amount of meat in a recipe and add in more vegetables (instead of 1 lb of chicken in your stir-fry, use 1/2 lb, slice it thinner, and double your veggies.) Don't count on one breast per person, slice up your cooked breasts and serve (that's how we use just 2 breasts for the 4 of us.)

My kids love fish, especially salmon that I marinate in teriyaki and sprinkle with a little brown sugar then broil. Kids will eat almost anything you put on a stick, so pick up bamboo skewers.

Now what?

You have a pantry full of the ingredients above. Bring home a couple of pork chips because they were on sale, cook them with a couple tablespoons of olive oil and some of your veggies (let's say onion and bell peppers) season with spices (let's pick sage and pepper) pour a 1/2 c wine or chicken broth in your pan and scrap up the lovely brown bits as you boil it down a little, serve it all over your starch (cooked rice or pasta.) TADA! DINNER! In probably 20 minutes!
.-= Azucar´s last blog ..Real Eggs Only With Candy! And Lies! =-.

Definitely the Flaxseed type ;-)

That said, we do have a few indulgences. My husband loves natural foods and healthy cooking but isn't as passionate about it as I am. So we keep a couple cans of Chef Boyardee around for his lunches. And we both enjoy lots of items from the Trader Joe's frozen section. It's the best of both worlds - quality ingredients, great taste, and convenience! We usually have a frozen TJ's item (their chicken chow mein is delicious!) about once a week.

But the majority of our meals are made up of fresh fruit, non-HFCS yogurt, lots of steamed veggies, homemade bread, and lean (often vegetarian) protein.

I've been eating this way literally since the moment I moved away to college - so about 7 years now - and it has gotten to the point where Chips Ahoy, Wonderbread, and canned "vegetables" (because those don't count as real vegetables) taste BAD. I guess I'm becoming a food snob? :-)

I am one of those ppl who have flax seed and know how to use it. We make everything from scratch. On rare occasion I will buy a box of crackers for the kids when I don't have time to make my own. Most ppl think it is more expensive to eat whole, organic foods, but it isn't. I feed our family of six organic wholefoods for $650 a month. Once you switch from box stuff(I won't even call it food) to wholefoods, you can't go back. My kids have a hard time eating at extended family dinners b/c the food "taste funny", lol. I haven't had a ton of time for my blog lately but I try and focus a good portion of time on food and food allergies. Best advice, eat as much local fresh food as you can, cook and bake from scratch as much as you can, get your kids involve so that they learn to make healthy choice and stay away from GMOs, HFCS, and hydrogenated oils.

Gina,

Try turbinado sugar (in the raw), stevia, or honey as a much better alternative to refined/white sugar!

I also recommending joining a CSA (community supported agriculture) program. Fresh fruits and veggies every week from your own farm-share...and it forces you to try new things that you may not ordinarily buy at the store - and you know you're always eating what's fresh/in season, local, and pesticide-free!

Also, my 8-month preggo belly has been LOVIN the fresh smoothies I've been making every morning for months. Here are some things I put in them:

*1/2 - 3/4 frozen banana (peel ripe bananas, cut them up, and put them in a ziplock bag in your freezer
*1/2 cup of fresh or frozen berries (blackberries, raspberries, strawberries, or blueberries - which are VERY good for you and loaded w/ antioxidants)
*8 oz. of a "liquid" base (orange juice, fresh pressed apple juice, soymilk, whatever). Don't use sugary "juices" that are LOADED w/ corn syrup!
*1/4 cup organic vanilla yogurt
*2 tbsp. ground flaxseed meal (LOADED w/ omega 3's and fiber)
*I also add one serving (2 scoops) of ARIA brand women's vanilla whey protein (I get this at Trader Joe's)

If it's too thick, add more juice/liquid...

Dude - Amber - I am sooo jealous of your homemade-ice-cream-makingness. That is so freaking cool (uh, no pun intended.)

I also felt pretty smug about my cookies and tea :)

I strive to eat local, non-processed foods whenever possible. Am I perfect? No. But I am slowly getting better. I just got an ice cream maker and I'm making my own ice cream, for instance. My great grandmother would surely recognize cream, milk, sugar and vanilla. She would also be highly jealous of the machine itself, and the deep freeze I store it in, I bet. Ice cream, like cookies, aren't health food. But I feel MUCH better about my own homemade variety than the long list of chemicals from the grocery store.

I also grow my own garden, can, and freeze foods in season. It's easier than I thought it would be, and I feel very smug when I'm eating my own jam on my own bread.
.-= Amber´s last blog ..Making Peace =-.

Tea! I forgot about tea!

I am OBSESSED with tea! I'm a southern girl from my ankles to my eyeballs, and I love experimenting with it.

It's like learning medieval medicine THAT WORKS! I've brewed up fever-teas, menstrual teas, headache brews. Get some books on healing teas, find an herbalist that sells some good quality herbs, and find some blends.

My favourite day-use brew is my nutrition tea with red clover and oatstraw. Those aren't so tasty, but the peppermint and lavendar are. Sweeten it with honey (I use raw-local honey for my allergies) and it's amazing!

Food and tea are medicines. It's fascinating!

I love Azucar's list! <3

I grew up a lot like you did, FB. My mom's version of getting dinner was frozen $1 pizza or hamburger helper. I couldn't tell you how to tell when a veggie was ripe and not rotten!

I moved out to Seattle (and moved in with a foodie) and my whole world changed! No boxes? Hardly any cans? How will I EAT? And the change came gradually.

I learned how to cook by instinct. I use recipes for guides about proportion and base ingredients, but I experiment with flavor.

Some tips to cut cost:
1. Find a shop or health food store that does grains and spices in bulk. Not only will you get some screaming deals, but you'll also find tons of new spices and grains to experiment with. One time, I was pricing out cinnamon sticks at the grocery store, and it was $5 for a bottle of maybe 7 sticks. At my grainery, it was $.75 an ounce! I've found quinoa, sorghum, barley, etc.

2. Go out to eat. Pick your favorite foods. Those first ten or so bites, savor them. Tear them apart. Analyze them. Is it the garlic you love? The mix of sweet and salty? That hint of spice? What of the textures? The temperature? Write it down!

I did that with my favourite foods, thai foods. Pretty soon, I could identify the elements that made those foods stand out to me: sweet, spicy, ginger, garlic, al dente noodles with the crisp sprouts on top. From that point on, I started down the road of wanting to recreate those things in my own kitchen.

3. Shop at local ethnic markets for your specialty ingredients. Safeway has coconut milk in the can for $2.50, but the asian market as the same exact thing for $1.09!

4. Change up your salads! Go with the local, ripe harvests. Pick a theme. I love Asian Dinner Salads: Almond-coated chicken breast pieces over a bed of tender greens and bok choy, with oranges, pickled ginger, slivered almonds, and a sesame orange dressing.

5. Farmer's Markets rock in the summer. I created about 3 gallons of fresh, raw salsa from scratch one time just from ingredients at the market. And it cost me maybe $10!

6. Never say no to produce. When you take the beans shopping, if they want to try some odd looking veggie or fruit, grab it! Splurge on produce. Take it home, google it, find recipes, and enjoy!

7. Kids want sweet? Make smoothies! Mine are always bright green because I use about 5 cups of spinach as a base, but they are sweet and tasty and my daughter always wants more.

We do tend to spend more on food per week than the average western-dieter...But consider that we, as a nation, spend about 15% of our income on health care costs and 10% on food costs. What if spending more on food means spending less on health care?

Good luck! I can't wait to see what you try next!

Oh go you!!! :::doing the Happy Dance For Gina:::

Do you have a crockpot? If so, check out Stephanie O'Dea's site crockpot365@blogspot.com --she did this whole year-long thing of using her crock every day, and she's got a motherlode of "oh crap I have no time to cook" quickie recipes on there...hell, check out my own blog, where I do a lot of the same kind of thing, trying to make decent food for my family without spending much, buying processed food, or taking time I don't have. (If you don't have a crockpot, especially one with an auto-shut-off, get one--busy overworked mom's best friend. Throw a bunch of chicken pieces, a bag of mixed veggies, and Some Simmer Sauce Or Another in there in the morning, turn it on low all day, and dinner's ready when you get home...)

Go you! the hardest thing about getting rid of processed food is really changing how you think, because it's really not that time consuming once you get the hang of it. But the thought-change is not easy and takes a while! Good luck!!
--Jenn

Congrats Gina! I'm stoked for you! I love the list Azucar gave you. Really, the biggest investment is that first grocery shop. You'll come home with stuff and feel like you have nothing to eat (spices, vinegars, oils and grains) but then slowly but surely you will learn ways to combine them and make yummy yummy meals. I find that any of those cookbooks that have been around for generations like The Joy of Cooking are a good place to start. JOC has detailed instructions for how to roast a chicken and how to break asparagus and how to whisk eggs with sugar and what light and fluffy means. You can't go wrong with it.
Keep us posted on your culinary adventures! Have fun!
.-= Melodie´s last blog ..A Successful HBAC, A Failed Birth Plan. =-.

Hooray! I'm so excited for you. We started this whole new way of looking at food around the beginning of the year, and I'll tell you, I feel great. I'm not paying attention to calories or fat, just whether or not it's a "whole food" or if it's processed. I've lost weight, have a ton more energy and feel a lot better about what I'm putting in my body and Kendall's. I really want to learn how to make tortillas next because we go through SO many of them, especially when we make black bean quesadillas at least once a week. We are also HUGE fans of tea around here :) It's always in the refrigerator.
.-= Jill @BabyRabies´s last blog ..I will NEVER =-.

Gina, thanks for your post! I've enjoyed reading both the post and the comments. :) I'm a foodie who didn't learn how to cook until working as a nanny. That year was incredibly challenging, but I have since learned a lot about cooking and eating. Two years ago, we joined the local food revolution. Although we do still eat non-local and processed food, we are eating more local and less-processed food. I've also started making some of my own jam as well as applesauce. Oddly enough, that hasn't been as hard as it sounds. :)

My favourite cookbooks are The Joy of Cooking, The Better Homes and Garden Cookbook and Jamie Oliver's Food Revolution cookbook. I should probably say that those are my favourite reference/beginner cookbooks. To be honest, cookbooks are a weakness of mine. Fortunately I've discovered that I can borrow them from the library. :) If you get a breadmaker, I highly recommend The Bread Machine Cookbook series by Donna Rathmell German. Happy cooking! :)

Gina, good for you! I had a similar upbringing--we were poor, & my mom had to work 3 jobs just to keep a roof over our heads. I've been "mom" to my brother since I was 8 years old. You're right - crap food is SO much cheaper, so that's all we ate. Ramen noodles, mac & cheese, & spaghetti were staples at our house. I kept most of these habits as an adult, not knowing any better, & now I'm an embarrassed learner. :) I agree with a pp that it's okay if much of what you eat has fat, as long as it's made with REAL ingredients. We shop at Costco, & get lots of great items in bulk, like romaine lettuce, organic carrots, shredded cheddar cheese, flour, potatoes, noodles, eggs, nuts, apples, pineapples, & grapes. Since I work full time, these items work out great for my lunches & things to leave for the kids to eat. I'm glad you mentioned a breadmaker--I think that's my next big project. I learned all about the evils of partially hydrogenated foods last year & have successfully avoided them in every area except bread (SO impossible to find a tasty brand w/o it!). I've found that cooking WITH the kids is a fun, messy, & educational project. We make oatmeal cookies, pumpkin pancakes, banana nut waffles, cheese & apple cracker sandwiches, & cherry tomatoes with cream cheese & chives. I also started gardening with my 3-year-old, & am considering growing some veggies. They say cucumbers, tomatoes, & pumpkins are great plants for kids to grow. You could also do an herb garden, which will make for really tasty cooking & save you lots of money in spices.

I'm glad you posted this. Now I don't feel like as much of an idiot for only recently trying out what everyone's been singing praises about for years. :)

Wow! All this is so awesome! This post has inspired me to do what I've always wished I could do - eat Real Food.

I am a a processed and packaged food-eater all the way, and always have been. My mom cooked but both my parents worked a lot and my brother and I would just have to depend on canned goods and frozen dinners sometimes. I've been making kraft mac n cheese my whole life!

I am loving all the suggestions from the comments... It makes it seem very doable. I'm going to have to read up on how to shop at the grocery store in order to cook from scratch. Thank you all so much!

I am very very jealous of Azucar... I wish I had grown up growing my own food and baking my own bread, etc! I would feel so much more self-sufficient. I think I will challenge myself to eat Real Food for awhile. It will be good for me :)

@Mel - I would LOVE to consider a garden. Tell me what I need to do, please! I have no idea even where to start.

Gina, my favorite cookbook of all time, and the one I always refer back to, is The Joy of Cooking. I swear by it and refer to it as the kitchen bible.

It's chock full of information ABOUT food as well, with explanations in each section about how certain processes work, or why ingredients (especially in baking) should be combined in certain orders, etc. It's a pretty excellent starting point for "new" cooks, and has excellent basic recipes for just about everything.

Now all we've got to do is get you growing your own veggies out in the back yard!!!! (Just yesterday, Levi and I planted quinoa, red cabbage, tomatoes, snow peas and broccoli!)

I highly recommend the numerous no-knead bread recipes for some crazy easy and delicious homemade bread. You can also use the dough for GREAT homemade pizza crust. I make this stuff all the time and it's unbelievably tasty. (Mmmmmmm...now I'm hankering for a pressed panini with leftover bread...too bad we ate it all already!)
Check out this version: http://family.go.com/blog/catherinewman/fantastic-fearless-five-minute-bread-889536/ for a delicious whole-wheat (or at least part wheat with some extra wheat germ!) version.

I second Azucar's list!

In my house, we are obsessed with food (and spirits)! Obsessed. We cook a lot, we eat a lot, and we're all healthy and in shape and I have to say, reading Michael Pollan and Barabara Kingsolver - among countless others - and examining how Mediterraneans eat and live have really influenced our food choices. Plus, my partner is a chef who is really focused on local, seasonal, and organic foods, so that helps!

We don't buy processed foods at all.

We eat pizza at least once a week. We make a large batch of dough and keep it in the fridge & just pull off what we need for a pizza.

I actually make "make & break" cookies from scratch, although I've never heard them called that before. I use a Thomas Keller recipe for the cookies, double it, then roll it and freeze it in logs or cookie-size balls, so we can just pull out what we need and throw them in the oven.

We eat a lot of chocolate and baked goods, but they're things we make at home from high-quality ingredients, not filled with creepy preservatives, colors, fake sugars, and so on. We eat a lot of fat (olive oil, lard, butter), but very little soy and NO fake ingredients, No fake sugars, no fat-free/sugar-free versions of foods that are meant to have fat and sugar in them.

I was a vengetarian for over a decade and when I think about how I ate then, I shudder. I probably consumed more GMO, unhealthy foods during that period than enyone should in a lifetime.

I think another important component of our diet is that we have a farm share. Our daughter is two-and-a-half and last summer, her favorite food was beet greens. I don't think I even knew beets didn't come out of a can until I was an adult, but she gets to pick her own food at a local, organic farm. And we get our pork there too, so we can say, "remember the piggies that we fed in the summer? This is what we're eating." Some people might think that's scary to a kid, but she knows where her food comes from and can see and there are no secret ingredients, and I think that's really important.

From a feminist perspective, this kind of eating is critical. We're a food-positive household. We talk about foods in positive ways, we talk about how it's delicious and gives us energy and is fun to make and eat, and our daughter is at the center of that. She's helping to pick, prepare, cook, and eat everything we make. The labor - and fruits - are shared. There are no "kids' meals" in our house. We may not let her eat fifteen chocolate chip cookies after dinner, but it's because that'll make her tummy hurt, not because chocolate chip cookies are "bad." They're not; they're delicious! And I think the way we talk about and consume foods in our house make it less likely that she'll have the really depressing "food issues" that so many girls have these days. Of course, on a side note, we also don't use words like "fat" and "skinny" or talk about our bodies in degredating ways, or place signifigance on size, and combined with our food choices, I think my daighter's experience is going to be very different from a lot of her peers.

I'll stop now too!

Oh-I'm back (how annoying ;), but we do eat pizza whenever we want and go out for ice cream. No holier than though around here. Just feeling good about balance when we know we are getting nutritionally dense foods into us.
.-= Hillary´s last blog ..flowers13: Trying to scavenge food for the lil'uns and prepping for my mw appt today. #30weeks #pregnant =-.

This is awesome. I love talking food and I so much appreciate the advice you heard than someone telling you you should eat their specific diet--blech.

I've been on a food journey forever, well, since realizing in college that the crazy sinus headaches I was constantly suffering from were from dairy! It blew my world wide open. The docs were about to send me to Boston for big time tests thinking I must have a brain tumor I was in so much pain and before I did that I went to a little old lady who practiced holistic nutrition and had an herb farm. I walked in and she said, "food allergies--I can see it all over your face." I was skeptical, but gave it two weeks and all the friggin pain I'd been suffering with disappeared completely!

Now that I've cleaned out my body I can handle dairy in certain amounts and just cut down when it feels to much. We eat mostly raw and cultured dairy too.

Anyways, after a long circle that involved veggie/vegan blah blah I ended back at Real Foods.

I love, love love teh blog Nourished Traditions and the Cheeseslave rocks my world too. Real ladies, eating and cooking real food. We eat butter (but don't cook it), bacon and everything else wonderfully satisfying and are in pretty good shape. I never think about weight anymore and we just try and focus on healthy.

And of course, we end up eating some crackers and other packaged foods because contrary to my ego--I am not supermom and I don't enjoy being in the kitchen all day.

Oh and on the bread part--we buy sprouted grain bread at our co-op. It's delicious and a great way to eat grains.

Good luck!
.-= Hillary´s last blog ..flowers13: Trying to scavenge food for the lil'uns and prepping for my mw appt today. #30weeks #pregnant =-.

My favorite recipe website is eatingwell.com. There is a mustard maple pork tenderloin there that is just unbelievably wonderful. There are other excellent recipes there too, using actual real food. I credit this site with really getting me "into" cooking, rather than just tossing stuff into a skillet and praying something edible emerged.

It's awesome.
.-= Amanda´s last blog ..Eggs, Eggs, and More Eggs =-.

@Azucar - thank you. It's my mission in life to come so far that no one could ever recognize me as a homeless little girl. At times I think I've accomplished that so thoroughly that people jump to conclusions about what I must have experienced as a presumably middle class white person. I'm also grateful that my kids will never know what I knew, although, sometimes I'll wonder how they'll ever learn to appreciate anything without knowing first-hand how bad it could really be, and how lucky they truly are to grow up in a house. Sometimes I'm even jealous of my own kids. Not fair! The lead a charmed life. But I'm thrilled to give it to them.

Sometimes I think of the way you grew up (what I've been able to piece together in my mind from reading your blog these past years) and I'm ASTOUNDED that you are where you are, and how lucky your little boys are to have your experience and fierce love to protect them. Just to think they'll never have to go through what you did, how you broke the repeat pattern, it's incredible.

I grew up poor, but well-cared for. We were loved and wanted: clean home, clothes sewn by my mother, dad who did housework, no TV but lots of library books, sometimes a wood-burning stove for heat, borrowed cars, but plenty of time spent together. And gradually, my parents saved, and budgeted, and climbed up the ladder. Our experiences, although ostensibly the same just on a monetary level, could not have been more different in truth. My hat's off to you.
.-= Azucar´s last blog ..Hour, Minute, Second =-.

TFB, Have you checked out Mothering's dental and nutrition forums? Great info & we've been able to use some of the info from the dental forum to help with my ds2's teeth issues.@Azucar
That list is insane. My mom always cooked from scratch & even she wouldn't have a clue what to do with half that list. 90% of it would end up being tossed before it could be used around here. My basics are, a bag of flour, a bag of sugar, cooking oil of some kind, salt, pepper, garlic power, onion powder, dehydrated onion & garlic flakes. Lemon juice, canned mushrooms. Cream of tomato soup, cream of mushroom soup. Frozen veggies of various kinds. Cheese. Eggs. Frozen meats. Potatoes. Big bag of rice. Pasta & jarred pasta sauces, mayonaise. Ummm....I think that's all the stuff I always try to have. Everything else is specific to one or 2 recipes, like shrimp for my shrimp casserole.

@Azucar - the thing about the way I grew up is that we were largely homeless. Not a pot to cook in, not a place to grow food. That is where buying ho-hos at payday (instead of pots and pans and a piece of land) makes eating "cheaper."

I should also point out that I need $50,000 worth of dental work now thanks to the way we ate (and because we had no money for dental care) and I've already lost about 1/4 of my teeth. If I can't find $50,000 in the next 10 years, I'll be toothless and will have to get dentures. So yeah, those foods had a GREAT cost in the long-run. But my homeless, transient parents/guardians certainly weren't factoring that into the way they raised me. Honestly, the way I ate, it really is a miracle I survived. Guess it just proves how resilient kids really are!

You can't go wrong with anything from Cook's Illustrated/Cook's Country; their cookbooks and magazines are great. The Cook's Country mag, in particular, usually has a ton of useful recipes.

I wouldn't necessarily even buy a cookbook, there are fantastic recipes online to try. Start reading The Minimalist cooking column in the New York Times, reading Smitten Kitchen, Heidi's 101 Cookbooks is a great resource for very healthy/vegetarian recipes, my friend Whitney has a great cooking blog, Rookie Cookie, with family-friendly recipes and an ingredient index that is super helpful (when you need to build a meal around an ingredient you found on sale or must use up.) Her downloadable (free) Zero to Soup Guide is genius for people who are just starting to cook.

(Other essential spices I forgot: cumin and bay leaves.)
.-= Azucar´s last blog ..Hour, Minute, Second =-.

@TFB So funny! I grew up POOR. My parents saved money by cooking from scratch, making their own yogurt, grew as much as possible themselves, and bought staples in bulk and on sale. My folks were a little hippy-ish, haha! Whole grains, low sugar, powdered milk, natural peanut butter...all we kids wanted was a stinking Ding-Dong!
.-= Azucar´s last blog ..Hour, Minute, Second =-.

@Azucar - don't shut up - this helps! The good news is that I actually already have a lot of these things because my MIL brings them over and leaves them. The only problem is knowing what to do with them! Like I said - I'm not a cook, and have never had any interest (or time, or the want to spend my time in this matter, I should say). If I was going to buy one simple "Healthy Cooking for dummies" book, what would you recommend?
.-= TheFeministBreeder´s last blog ..Eating Only What Great-Grandma Would Recognize =-.

I should say that yes, the initial investment is more expensive. You'll be paying $10 for a bag of flour, $12 for a bottle of olive oil, several dollars for spices, but it's worth it.

Alright, you got me thinking about what I think it essential for a kitchen. I know you can find these lists anywhere, but just in case, here's what I've found are the foundation for consistently cooking meals from scratch. If you have these on hand, you can feed your family healthy food, and feed it to them quickly.) Buy ingredients when they're on sale, and buy multiples. Rotate your canned and dry goods.

Some kitchen staples:
1 large bottle of extra virgin olive oil
1 large container vegetable oil
2 pounds butter (keep in freezer, defrost as needed)
25 lbs white, unbleached flour
5-10 lbs whole wheat flour (loses nutrients faster, so buy in smaller quantities)
Various grains (I keep barley, oatmeal, and rye)
25 lbs of sugar
Honey
10 pounds of pastas in various shapes (I always have angel hair, spaghetti, fettuccine, elbow, farfalle, and rice on hand.) Buy on sale, they keep for years
5 cans of tomatoes in various sizes and cuts
Legumes! Bags of beans (pinto, red kidney, black, navy) even a few cans for quick cooking, and lentils
A variety of veggies, I always have celery, carrots, bell peppers, leafy greens, onions, lettuce, parsley or cilantro, scallions
10 lb bag of potatoes
Garlic bulbs
Ginger knobs
Dozen eggs
Chicken, beef, and veggie stock
25 lbs of rice (I keep jasmine, short grain, brown, and converted on hand.)
1-2 lemons
1 each Kosher and table salt
Peppercorns and a pepper grinder
Baking soda
Baking powder
Wines to cook with, have a white, red, and possibly a sherry available
Vinegar (1 large jug of white vinegar, 1 bottle of rice vinegar, 1 bottle of balsamic, 1 apple cider.)
1 bottle of vanilla
1 can of cocoa powder
1 box cornstarch
Soy sauce
Good mustard (dijon or brown)
Cheddar or parm cheese

Essential spices:
Rosemary, thyme, sage, basil, oregano, chili powder, garlic powder, ginger, paprika, cinnamon, cayenne

Second tier spices (used less often):
Marjoram, curries, dried mustard, dill, smoked paprika, nutmeg, cloves, red pepper flakes

I order my spices from a spice shop in Seattle called World Spice. You pay far less for your spices, get more, and get better quality. The curries are amazing. The tiny spice jars from the grocery store are a rip-off. DON'T buy curry from a grocery store (unless it's your friendly neighborhood Indian market.)

If you decide to bake more you should have baking chocolate, brown sugar, powdered sugar, chocolate chips, evaporated and sweetened condensed milk, yeast, vital wheat gluten, walnuts, almonds, various other nuts, and extracts.

Going to cook more Asian-inspired foods? Trek to your local Asian market and have bamboo shoots, rice noodles, water chestnuts, dark soy, oyster sauce, sesame oil, teriyaki sauce, mirin, hoisin, fish sauce, tamarind, and chili paste on hand.

Mediterranean? Cornmeal, olives, artichoke hearts, Parmesan cheese, ricotta, anchovy paste in a tube, on hand.

Plant herbs like basil, oregano, rosemary, parsley, and chives. You can often hang them to dry and have them all year round when stored in paper bags.

The great thing is that once you buy ingredients on sale, they often last for years when stored in a cool, dark places.

Wow. Someone should tell me to shut up.
.-= Azucar´s last blog ..Hour, Minute, Second =-.

At my house we go to the grocery store to buy things that belong in food groups - meat, dairy, fruit, vegetable, grain; and convenience food isn't part of the food pyramid. My daughter is amazed that there are aisles in the store that are full of "that's not food" (candy, chips, soda, etc.). That's not to say we don't occasionally indulge, of course.

I knew I was secretly indoctrinating my daughter when she was pretending to drive around town in a cardboard box and told me she was going to the store to get "ingredients for dinner." Also when she told me that veggies are good to eat because they taste good, give you energy to play and "help your poop come out."

Another highlight of cooking this way rather than buying convenience foods is that my daughter can participate more in the preparation. She really enjoys it - I know your boys will, too.

@Azucar - my old bandmate in Veruca Salt grew up like you. Well, she actually grew up very wealthy (the kind of wealthy where they had live-in help) and she was always so fascinated in all the "fun" foods I'd buy - like Break N Bake cookies. She'd never had them, so when I was living with her I got into the habit of making us Break N Bake cookies a few times a week. This was 10 years ago, so you can see that I carry that "tradition" through all my domestic relationships! :/

The thing is - it actually takes a lot more money these days to eat healthy than it does to eat crap, and because I grew up dirt poor with no home to live in, we lived on crap. My Grandmother couldn't boil water, so when she'd say she was running out to buy dinner, she'd come home with a half gallon of milk and a box of Ho-Hos. That's not a joke.

I only started to learn to appreciate REAL food - good food - when I was living with Louise (from VS.) I admired the fact that she was a foodie, and that sparked my interest in eating more exotic things. I'm good at dining out and eating healthy, but the whole "cooking it" part has escaped me.

I wish I grew up in your house! I have to say, I'm very, very jealous.
.-= TheFeministBreeder´s last blog ..Eating Only What Great-Grandma Would Recognize =-.

As a child, all I wanted, more than anything in this world, was store-bought bread, Rice-a-Roni, Twinkies, Stouffers, etc., etc. All my friends had those glamorous ingredients and meals, and at my house? Nothing but meals from scratch, fresh veggies from the garden, bread made by my father from wheat he'd ground, and never anything processed or boxed. exception: once a year on our birthday we got to go to the store and pick out a boxed cereal.

Who'd ever heard of brown rice? Why did my mom make strange things like polenta or arroz con pollo, and yet had never made a cake from a box? Lentils? Canning fruit in the fall? We were sent into the garden to gather peas or lettuce for dinner? WE WERE WEIRD.

Well, well, well look how the tables have turned.

I've grown up to realize that my parents gave me a rare modern gift: how to cook and eat healthily. I almost don't know what to do with boxed "foods." I went through a period of rebellion in my first year of college when I bought all those glamorous packages, and quickly found out that they were disgusting. I cook everything from scratch, even popping popcorn (well, not crackers, those I buy.) Frosting from a can? Cookies in a tube? Don't be absurd.

I talk to my friends who don't have the skills to just grab whatever is in the fridge and improvise a dinner, which is almost mind-boggling to me. I understand that this is common now, that we don't know how to cook without recipes, which is scary-fascinating. I've been thinking about this a lot lately. We'd solve one root of food insecurity if families knew how to cook from scratch instead of relying on boxed items.

How can we learn those skills across our culture? How can people learn to make real cookies and cakes, soak beans, make bread, whip up a stir-fry?
.-= Azucar´s last blog ..Hour, Minute, Second =-.

We're about 50/50 here. The problem is that we're "lazy" (mental/physical health issues) & most real food takes more energy to prep than we have. It often feels like it's more energy than it's worth. I recently made a stew & even buying the pre-peeled baby carrots, the prep took over 2 hours (trimming meat, cutting up/peeling other veggies/flouring & frying meat). I was exhausted before I was done; for 1 meal. So we do stir fry, casseroles & processed stuff.

My husband has just found this book called Skinny Bastard, from the Skinny Bitch authors. At first I was not so sure about these women, as they seem rather coarse. But they are right on about their stuff.
Also I would suggest reading Fast Food Nation. Do Not watch the movie as it has nothing to do with the book.
And my Mother swears by this book, Let’s Have Healthy Children By, Adelle Davis.

Yay for you! We are trying to make these same changes in our house.

One thing I do is make "healthier" choc. chip cookies and baked goods. I use recipes or add in place of flour things like wheat germ and ground flaxseed, along with whole wheat flour. My hubby likes it because it makes crunchy cookies, I like it because I feel it is slightly better than using white flour. I'm probably fooling myself, but adding the wheat germ and flaxseed to a chocolate chip cookie is a whole lot more satisfying than taking a fiber supplement, if you catch my drift!

Also, I bet you will find, when you make the changes and stick with them, that you just might end up pregnant without really trying. It is AMAZING how the chemicals in all those processed foods can affect fertility. All the millions of cases of "Unexplained Infertility" in our country, I am positive can be traced to diet.

oh, and I have flax seed and know how to use it ;) it's great in smoothies!

wow, good for you!

Now, I don't have kids (yet) and am a poor student, so I fully expect that this would be more challenging once I'll have a family. However, I think I eat pretty well. I don't buy packaged stuff, when I go to the grocery store I buy veggies, fruit, milk, yogurt, eggs, bread, tea, canned beans, pasta, quinoa... that's pretty much it. And sometimes I buy grain-fed chicken. Oh, I buy pasta sauce sometimes. I try to stay away from everything including aspartame or other kinds of fake sugar, msg, or things that have 40 different ingredients or stuff I can't pronounce
/don't know what is. I try to get plenty of protein (whether from meat, beans or other), I take fish oil every day for the extra omega 3 and vitamin D, and I take Floradix because I'm at risk for anemia. I don't drink pop. I also hardly ever eat candy or super sweet things and try to stay away from much sugar, and I don't feel deprived because of it - I do it because it upsets my stomach and makes me feel gross. I feel healthy and happy and really, this isn't very hard. I look at packaged food or fast food and I shudder - I honestly don't consider it food. And NOT because I'm some sort of food snob, but because I listen to what my body tells me it wants to eat!

congratulations on your new path :) it'll be great, I'm sure!

I cook almost everything from scratch :) (I made fajitas tonight- but mine were chicken) It is healthier for my family- as well as cheaper, and I enjoy cooking. I spend a large part of my day in my kitchen. Good thing I like it in here!

Good for you! I think these are fantastic changes!

<3
.-= Joni Rae´s last blog ..Ostara 2010 =-.

This is a great post. I'm a vegetarian, so a lot of processed foods are automatically off-limits to me, but I still consume my fair share :). But baking your own cookies/cakes/etc is a great thing. Kids LOVE baking from scratch, and it's a great thing they can start to help out with from a young age. Whole wheat (or not) pancakes/waffles are a fun weekend treat, especially if you make them together!

As far as veggies go, the rule here is that you can have as many as you want if they're steamed or raw.

Have you been watching "Jamie Oliver's Food Revolution"? It's wonderful and very much about eating real foods of all sorts-- as long as it's made from real ingredients, not chemicals. I recommend it highly :)

Good for you! I'm expecting my first in May, and I'm determined to raise my kids to cook from the get-go. My husband's mother never taught him a thing, and my mom did teach me a few things, but she's not a great cook, and when I left home all I knew was I didn't want to spend my life eating meat, boiled potatoes and overcooked veggies. I ate pretty unhealthily until I went to work as a nanny for a woman who loved to cook good food and showed me a few things.

Here's a simple recipe for you that the kids should love, and granny should recognize.

Spread some refried beans on a flat tortilla. Add grated cheddar cheese. For adults, add your favorite hot sauce. Throw them in the fold-over grill (or in a skillet if you don't have a grill). Fast, high-fiber, high-protein and delicious!

If you are interested in real food try reading Nina Planck, titles "Real Food" and "Real Food for Mother and Baby." Her sources are scientific studies and experts in their fields, though the books are easy reads (and enjoyable!).

I make most of our meals from scratch. I have flaxseed and know how to use it. All of our meat comes from pastured, organically raised animals from a local farm, and for half of the year all of our fruits and veggies also come from a local farm that uses organic methods. I bake most of our bread and all of our cookies/cakes/muffins/etc. I do buy some convenience items, like crackers, granola bars and boxed cereals, but they are the exception, not the rule and I make my own when I have the time. And I've had a case of Annie's Organic Shells and cheddar that my kids won't touch because they like the real stuff better.

I've got about a month before I'm due with #3. Having 3 kids aged 4 and under may increase our convenience food/takeout consumption for a while.
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We're fairly recent converts (within the past year) to the "eat real food" movement. And, like you, we can't believe how much better food tastes. For instance, we can't believe we ever LIKED boxed mac 'n cheese after discovering how easy and delicious it is to actually make mac 'n cheese from scratch. And this is coming from a girl who grew up thinking stouffers was "home-made" and a guy whose specialty when I met him was chicken on the George Foreman and near east rice pilaf!

That's not to say we don't occasionally hit a drive-thru, but we've really become addicted to fresh food. (Which is great because we've both got a few pounds to lose and our healthier alternatives have got to have a positive effect on that!)

@Steph - I can totally see the point of having a breadmaker now. Do you know how impossible it is to find bread in a store that does NOT contain high-fructose corn syrup? It hardly exists! Craziness I say.

Congratulations to you for taking the first and most important step in living healthier! It is so funny that this is your topic as today we finally bought a hand operated grain and flour mill to make our own flour and nut butters too. We can also grind up flaxseed! :) I know what you mean about food, it has taken me many years to learn about good nutrition and healthy fats. Just remember Rome wasn't built in a day, baby steps!!
.-= Kelly Klassen´s last blog ..Endings and Beginnings =-.

We are vegan (vegetarian by choice, vegan by allergies) so I can't do this as my grandmother would have no idea what to do with tempeh or even what it is. I say everything in moderation... and we do have and use flaxseed - awesome egg substitute!
.-= Erykah´s last blog ..Making Milestones =-.

Having grown up in the household that made most meals from scratch, that's largely how I cook for my family (except mac-n-cheese...my kids won't eat that from scratch). Tools that help me cook at home? The crockpot and bread maker. I love mine to pieces.

One of the other major culprits of "don't eat this" are the seasoning packages, such as one might use for tacos or sloppy joes or spaghetti. It's actually so easy just to whip the seasoning together, and the results are tasty and WAY less in sodium. (I will say that it can be expensive on the front end to buy the spices, but then you have them.)

Your cookies look so yummy! I'm spoiled by my dad on cookies--he makes a few dozen every week and gives some to us--so I rarely make cookies except during the holidays. Lucky me :)