The Best Way I’ve Found to Give a Baby a Bath

Nov 14th 2011

I’ve had three babies in under five years, and yet I’ve never used an infant bath tub with any of them. Sure, I registered for one before my first son was born, and tried out the few that we received, but nothing ever quite worked for our situation.

Instead, when all of our babies were small, we used a bath sponge in the tub that looked a little like this:

$11 at Amazon.com

Before the kids could sit upright by themselves, it was just easier to lay them in the bottom of the tub on the sponge, and fill the tub with an inch or so of water.

After they could sit upright, I had them sit on the sponge for a little extra padding just in case they lost their new-found balance.

I love the bath sponges so much, I’ve had one for all three kids, and even bought them as gifts for others.

As you can see, my boys take their baths together – but three kids is just too much for me to handle in one bath, so Jolene gets her bath separate (and a lot less often.) She’s outgrown laying on the bath sponge, but I’m not quite ready for her to sit up in the tub (she’s still a little wobbly.)

Instead, I pulled out the dish pan that was used to hold my placenta during my homebirth. I found that it’s the exact perfect size to help her sit upright, and she absolutely loves splashing around in the shallow water.


They make very expensive upright infant tubs that accomplish basically the same thing I’m doing here, only they’re much more narrow. I like the depth of this because I can easily scoop water out of it and stick it under the faucet to put clean water in, with her still in it. I think I paid less than $5 for this dish pan to be used in my homebirth, and now I get to recycle it for Jolene’s own special bath tub for free.

But I think my (and Jolene’s) favorite part is the make-shift shower head I came up with. I’m borrowing her brother’s beloved play watering can to rinse her off, which works just like a little mini shower! Between rinsings, I leave the warm water from the faucet trickling into the can so it’s ready to use after I’m done scrubbing each part of her little chubbiness.

 

So, after three kids, I think my official recipe for bathtime at different ages is:

Under 6 months: Lay a bath sponge in the bottom of the tub, or in a large sink (sinks are GREAT! Easier on your back.)

Just Learning to Sit: $5 Dish Pan and a few fun bath toys to distract them while you scrub sticky fuzz out of their neck folds.

Sitting Up Unassisted: That original bath sponge under their toosh to give their bums a bit of padding, until they become bathtime experts.

***And in every case, a watering can is a perfect mini-shower!

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Do you have any bathtime tricks to make it easier on mom & dad, and/or more fun for baby?

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Baisleac 6 pts

We had/used a bath sponge. They're awesome. We also happened to have an oval bathroom sink that was the perfect size for our bug in the 0-3 month range.

We did eventually get her an inflatable duck bath tub... just because it was too darned cute. It did not get replaced when the cats punctured it though.

KarissaKrapf 14 pts

I love this. Wish I would have thought of the bath sponge with mine. The stupid blue upright tub thing that is like $40 does NOT work.

Jennifer @ Also Known As the Wife 17 pts

I was *just* telling my husband that we need to get a bigger bath sponge (the one that came with the infant tub is too small for our giant 4 month old). I also didn't know what I was going to do with her when she was in the learning to sit phase. You just did all the thinking for me. Thank you!

aubreealkire9981 6 pts

Love the sponge! When the title of the post, I immediately thought "Well, my favorite is the sponge.". I'm glad someone else discovered it! I hated the baby tubs with a passion. So uncomfortable, and take up way too much room!

EverEvolvingEve 14 pts

I bath my babies in the tub with me until they can sit up. I do this in the evenings when hubby is home. After she's clean, cuddled and nursed, Daddy gets her so I can clean myself up and relax for a bit. Sometimes he'll bring me a glass of wine or a book... Whatever I'm in the mood for:)

amanda.littauer 5 pts

My 9-year-old holds the baby on her lap in the tub. They both love it, as does my back.

TaraBates 17 pts

I loved taking baths with my kids from about a month old until they were old enough to sit up completely unsupported, at which point I felt confident enough to stay outside the tub and bathe them. On occasion, they both got baths in the sink, but with a mesh bath chair so the water just drains right through. Showers with Mom or Dad were great too!

nichol.miller 6 pts

I loved those sponges too! had one with my boys, then when #2 was a few months old I got a water sling. (ring sling made from solarveil that is meant to go into the water.) From that point on my babies showered with me! My husband had other ideas.....http://bit.ly/snD7NQ

crystalbuffaloe 12 pts

To those concerned about bacteria in the sponge, you can get it wet and then microwave it -- 2 minutes kills over 99% of bacteria and 4 minutes removed even bacterial spores in one study. Just don't burn yourself taking it out of microwave.

TheFeministBreeder 75 pts moderator

crystalbuffaloe Great tip, Crystal! Thanks!

HeatherMiller 5 pts

What a great idea for the sponge!! I've got 4 kiddos and have wasted so much money on those darn tubs. Quick question though... how do you clean the sponge? Does it get moldy? I just got rid of my hug tub (it's kind of like the boppy, but it has a "seat" in it that sticks to the bottom of the tub).... it was awesome, until it got all moldy and I found it was hard to clean. I'd love to use the bath sponge for my 9 month old, great idea! thanks for this post!

TheFeministBreeder 75 pts moderator

HeatherMiller You just wring it out after you're done and hang it to dry, voila! :) It doesn't get moldy as long as you make sure to get the water out and hang dry.

ShelbyEbertMoore 8 pts

My mom bought a cute bath sponge shaped like a turtle for me and I had never heard of one so I wasn't sure what to use it for. I ended up using mine to place on the counter after the bath so I have somewhere soft to lay him and it absorbs any excess water. I feel silly now that I didn't realize the actual use, but it's worked out well for us anyway. :)

sara_sunshine 5 pts

I did the exact same thing with ours, just used it as a cushion next to the little bathtub. Bending over the bathtub at that age just seemed too hard, and our sink is never clean enough for a baby. ;)

82Apple 5 pts

My 15m old just showers with his daddy or with me. It's so much easier to clean him if he's standing and he loves to run under the running shower head! :)

heathenmom 5 pts

When my son was born, he just showered with me. He screamed every time I tried to put him in the bathtub. Unfortunately the bigger he got, the more difficult it was to hold him in the shower. I kind of miss those first few months now.

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Rebecca Daniels-Kerby
Rebecca Daniels-Kerby

We use watering cans, too! Target had a bunch of kid-sized watering cans this summer and we stocked up when they went on clearance. This is the only way my daughter will let me rinse her hair!

Nicole Troop
Nicole Troop

Natalie - we did the make your own stuff for awhile, but it seemed to dry out my son's hair really easily (he has a LOT). We do however, still use it as a body wash so we don't go through the super expensive shampoo too fast. Unscented Dr. Bronners, water, and a teaspoon of olive oil. Sometimes I add a bit of an essential oil mixture that is my concentrated cloth wipes solution, but usually I leave it plain.

The Feminist Breeder
The Feminist Breeder

Venus Birth - I think I got it at the dollar store, or perhaps Big Lots. I think any home goods store will have one.

Natalie Tucker St John
Natalie Tucker St John

Another great option is to make your own baby shampoo. We bought a huge bottle of Dr. Bronners and mixed it with water and a few drops of tea tree oil in a spray bottle or foamy soap pump. It's cheaper than anything you can buy and you can use any essential oil you like (tea tree oil, lavender, orange, whatever).

Venus Birth
Venus Birth

adorable!!! i see with some of my clients bathing is their worst fear. I sometimes recommend just laying baby on folded towels and then they can be easily washed after too. How did you wash/sanitize your sponge? Thanks for posting this. Also where did you get your pan?

Nicole Troop
Nicole Troop

As a rule I don't use anything rated higher than a 1 on my baby's skin, and nothing higher than a 2 on my own, except my one beauty vice - mascara. Baby steps, right? I was so bummed that the EMAB wash didn't work for us, It smells heavenly.

The Feminist Breeder
The Feminist Breeder

Nicole Troop - I love the California Baby too, great option!

Dara Priest
Dara Priest

Thanks for the info. Think I'll nix the rinsing cup thing for now. I'll use that $5 on some better shampoo perhaps.

Nicole Troop
Nicole Troop

Thanks Gina. We use California Baby Super Sensitive Shampoo and Bodywash right now. Rated a 1 on Skin Deep, not a 0 :( The EMAB wash gave my son a horrible flair up of his eczema to the point where he couldn't sleep for more than an hour and a half for about a month straight. It was awful and once we figured out what was causing it, I felt horrible. I have yet to find their unscented one in stores, so I haven't tried it yet. But yes, numbing agents are yucky and scary.

The Feminist Breeder
The Feminist Breeder

Nicole Troop - Just FYI - the "tear free" shampoos are only that way because they contain a chemical numbing agent that's fairly toxic. It's not so much that they're "tear free", it's that they actually numb the tear ducts to make it "tear free." We use Earth Mama Angel Baby shampoos that have zero toxins, so they contain no numbing agents, but I find that their foamy nature makes it easy to keep the soap out of baby's face.

Nicole Troop
Nicole Troop

I have one of those cups because my 15 month old HATES getting his hair rinsed. I think part of it is my fault because we used a natural shampoo that was not tear free in the past (finally found a tear free one we like!), so I never let water trickle down his face while rinsing. Anyway, the cup kinda sucks. We have DUNCKS from Skip Hop, that are better and double as toys, but you can bet money that I am going to be looking for a cheap watering can the next time I'm in the store. I'll try anything. Bath time used to be so much fun and now it always ends in tears :(

Chris Harmon
Chris Harmon

my grrl doesn't even like having the steam from the shower on her... watering cups and face shields were only mildly helpful....

The Feminist Breeder
The Feminist Breeder

Dara Priest - Yep, I've had those cups. The kids love to play with them, but I wasn't totally impressed with it's head-rinsing abilities. Honestly, a hand over the eyes has the same effect. For me, the watering can makes it easy to lightly shower water on the head for rinsing while easily being able to keep it out of the baby's face.

Dara Priest
Dara Priest

I too, have had 3 babies in under 5 yrs (ages 5, 4 and 11 mos...2 boys then a girl also! :) ) and I totally agree w the bath sponge. Works great, cheap and easy to clean. Love the watering can idea too. I always wanted to try those hair rinsing cup things with the front that forms to their head so water doesn't run down their face when you rinse hair. I always see them at Target, yet never bought one. Anyone used it? I figure for $5, if it sucks I won't really care!

Chris Harmon
Chris Harmon

I have a child with a head wetting aversion- to the tantrum extreme still at 8 sometimes.. so we took baths together and still I will shower with her to wash her (waist length) hair once a week or so...

Jenn Riedy
Jenn Riedy

I take my babies in the shower with me until they are too big to safely hold. My hubby just waits outside of the shower (or visa versa) to take the baby once she is washed so that I can continue with my shower.

Nicole Troop
Nicole Troop

I found the dish pan trick out of desperation last February. My son had a stomach bug and got a bad rash, so I needed to give him oatmeal soaks about 4 times a day. He was only 5.5 months and soooo close to sitting. So I just soaked his bum in the dishpan and he LOVED being able to sit up in the bath. I was worried about bacteria in the bath sponges (but I read that microwave trick, and that sounds awesome), so I got this little mesh lounge-y thing that's kinda the same idea for when he was really little.

Karen Smith
Karen Smith

I WISH I knew about that bath sponge! How awesome is THAT! I'm all for the sink bath, since I'm short & the bath tub wasn't the easiest thing to bathe baby in. He's 2 yrs old now & loves the bath tub. I'm going to try the watering can idea.

Jenny Burnett
Jenny Burnett

Great idea! We bought one of those stupid bath pod things. I was always so nervous with her in there. Now she's almost 8 months and I either take her in the shower with me (I have a shower sling - amazing!) or we just set her in the tub or kitchen sink. Looks like the sponge would have been great. Does Jolene get bothered by water in her face? We got our little one used to it, and now it doesn't bother her at all :)

Charlotte Hoogerhuis
Charlotte Hoogerhuis

With our son, when he outgrew his cheap bathtub, (at about 6 mos) we just put him on his belly in the bathtub, watching him ofcourse. He'd flop his head down into the water and cry twice, before he got the hang of it. He'd scoot around in the tub on his belly and it was the funniest. A fellow mom taught me that one. ;o)

The watering can is an idea though. We have a cheap one that doesn't pour properly. Maybe that will help him not be afraid of the shower anymore...?

Marina Siampos Gallovitch
Marina Siampos Gallovitch

I love the watering can idea. I used the bath sponge with my DD. Loved it! I think when you have more than one kid, efficiency is the key.

Michelle Wirgau
Michelle Wirgau

I am so buying a watering can! My toddler uses a $7-8 Ikea tub - which means sometimes baths happen in the kitchen - and she flatly refuses to lay back for hair rinsing.

Kim Kopel Stewart
Kim Kopel Stewart

The watering can - brilliant! We just shower (from infant on up) to get clean here, baths are for playing and soaking, and in my case, relaxing :)

Connie Fake Casey
Connie Fake Casey

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Sara Williamson
Sara Williamson

Great tips! Best way I found to give a baby a bath? Let Daddy do it ;-)

Bethany Becker
Bethany Becker

I have a weird 'thing' with the texture of those bath sponges - same with my 'my brest friend' pillow and other items. It makes my skin crawl just thinking of touching them, like nails on a chalkboard for me :/ I got the baby tub when my son was born for $20 and now use it with my daughter too so we've gotten our money's worth and I like that they can both be in the tub together :) The watering can is super cute though, I love that idea!!

The Feminist Breeder
The Feminist Breeder

Anne Roth - of course! How do you think she's growing so fast! :)

Jenny Rose Cooper
Jenny Rose Cooper

For us the easiest way has always been to get in with her. It to this day is one of my favotite times with her

Carina Hoskisson
Carina Hoskisson

Love the watering can idea! I use an IKEA baby bathtub with a foam insert. The IKEA bathtub was really inexpensive (Maybe $7?) and simply designed. I also use it to soak the kids' clothes in stain remover before I launder. It's a great mini laundry tool.

Noelle Spooner
Noelle Spooner

I used a bath sponge too and it worked great.

Jessica Hodgson New
Jessica Hodgson New

Bumbo chairs are great in the bath tub or sink. Helps with that in between stage.

Malinda McGuinn
Malinda McGuinn

I never even had a sponge. Just folded up an extra large towel for the same purpose. Ring out when your done and toss in the dryer.

Jennifer Johnson
Jennifer Johnson

I've used a bath sponge for my now 5 month old since he was brand new and I LOVE it! I'll have to try the dishpan thing because I've bben struggling with how to handle the sort of sitter stage successfully. (Wow, that was a nice alliteration!) The watering can is a great idea too.

Anne Roth
Anne Roth

Are you watering her?