The Incredible Talking 22 Month Old

Apr 02nd 2010

I’ve bragged a lot about Jonas on my blog, but Julesy needs a turn.  Both my kids are extra special in their own ways, but Julesy has a specific knack for language and music that is quite impressive.

Julesy’s language skills have amazed everyone he’s come into contact with.  The child talks in sentences and sings full songs with every lyric in tact.  I’m not kidding. He’s just one of those kids who took up talking like he was born with a whole lot to say.

His brother was very different.  Jonas didn’t say much of anything at this age except “bye” and “ni-ni” (for night-night.)  The first real word I remember him saying was “chicken” shortly before his 2nd birthday.  We were all so excited we talked about it for the rest of the night.  Then many more words followed pretty quickly, and when I took an inventory 3 days before his second birthday, he was up to 70 words (and the fact that I recorded and counted each of those 70 words shows just how relieved I was to hear the child finally saying something.)

But Julesy just couldn’t wait to talk.  I never got a chance to write down his first 70 words because they all came too fast.  As a matter of fact, I don’t think he even started with words – he started with phrases.  Complex phrases too.  Back last fall he started singing a jumbled version of Twinkle Twinkle Little Star – at just 15 months old.  He has since perfected that song, along with his ABCs, counting to 20, and singing “Itsy Bitsy Spider.”  The child is unstoppable.

Today we’re sitting outside and Julesy, my 22 month old, says:

“Mommy? Is dis a pine cone, mommy?”

Me: “Yep! That IS a pine cone, Julesy”

Julesy: “But we don’t eat pine cones, do we, Mommy?”

Me: “No, we don’t eat those.”

Julesy: “Cuz der not healthy, Mommy?”

This.  Coming from a child not even 2.  And he carries on conversations like this often.  Sometimes I don’t even know where he gets this stuff.  And sometimes it’s obvious that he’s repeating full sentences he hears the adults say.

We were grocery shopping in Target earlier this week, when I stopped by Starbucks for my usual.  The Barista asked me how old Julesy was, and I knew what she was going to say next because every time anybody asks me how old the child is they follow it with “But I can’t believe it – he talks like he’s 4!” So, already beaming, I tell the Barista that Julesy is 22 mos and she says “I heard him talking to you when you guys were by the food court and I thought it was the older boy talking – but then I turned around and it was the little guy!  I couldn’t believe it!” The conversation she overheard came after I gave Julesy a chocolate milk in the cafeteria and he started shouting “Let me hold my OWN chocolate milk Mommy!” Oh yeah… he’s LOUD too.  And he ends every sentence with “Mommy” or “Daddy” or “Grandma”, or whoever he’s addressing, which makes all of it so preciously adorable one can hardly stop themselves from scooping him up and covering him in kisses.

Have I also mentioned he’s bilingual?  Both my kids are. Their grandma speaks nothing but Spanish to them, so they understand and speak it very well.  You haven’t cried “awwwwee!!” until you’ve heard a redheaded 22 month old asking where his “pelota” is in a mixture of two languages.  It’s crazy cute.  Oh Julesy – I love you like mad.

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Did you have two children with very different language skills?  What order did they come in?  And what do you think made the difference?

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My daughter spoke like that...one of her jaw-dropping sentences, coming just after her 2nd birthday, was "Actually Mama, that's too difficult for me, you should do it." But she was speaking in sentences before 18 months old...she's 13 now, reading at a college level, is in gifted programs for all her subjects and is also playing clarinet and is artistic too...so watch that boy, he's going places - not that you're first son isn't, but what my daughter's teachers tell me is that early speech is a twofold thing with parental engagement and a determination to be in touch with the world, at that determination goes hand in hand with a love of learning...but that if one child in a family is gifted, usually all children in the family are.

So while this is a little tl;dr, I guess it boils down to the fact that both your boys are going to keep you on your toes in the very best of ways.

My daughter is a little over 2 and is the same as Julesy - talking like a 4 year old. She came out having a lot to say and hasn't really stopped. Except that she's really, really shy and will suck her thumb and twirl her hair if she's in a new situation with complete strangers. Other than that, she talks all the time. Sang the ABC song at 18 months. The whole song. Crazy.

My son who is going to be 1 in a few weeks (my HBAC baby) says very little. Maybe Hi, Daddy, Ma-Ma. I started to worry that he wasn't saying enough words because by 1 my daughter was saying phrases. Then I realized that he's probably on target with the average 1 year old (I hope, if he's not, please lie to me and say he is, I worry too damn much as it is).

I thought he would talk even more than my daughter - after all, she's older, talks all the time, and could teach him by her example...oh, but wait, she talks all the time. poor fellow. Just like his daddy, he has to wait because the ladies have the floor and our voices are very much heard!

I SO can relate. I only have my one DD, but I got those comments NONSTOP, every day we went out anywhere. DD will still talk all day, but I think she can pass as a 4yo now (she's tall). She's almost 3, and I remember her about to turn 1 and not being able to count her words, and being kind of surprised. It's wonderful because we could have fun conversations and she could use her words, which made everything in life with a toddler easier. But man those comments do get old... I didn't want her growing up thinking she was odd for just speaking up. Your son is so cute and so articulate!

My youngest was like that. People would always comment on the way she talked. Even talking to her on the phone would crack us up.
My 1st was very physical early on, and the talking came later.
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That is freaking adorable.

Hannah talked early- she was singing and speaking in full sentences by 18 months. Patrick barely said boo until well after his second birthday. My mother was in despair. She thought something was "wrong" with him. Willow was an early talker. She also has a lisp, so when she was teeny she would talk and talk and we would try not to laugh. "Momma, I have wong wegs so I can wun" "we went the wong way. S'pposed to go weft!" So cute. I'm hoping she will grow out of it though. Cooper babbles, but boy does he have a lot to say!

Love this post.
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Both of my kids were quite proficient with language at an early age. I think that it is great that yours are bilingual. I have worked hard to try and give that to my children.

We have had some measured success at it. I think that it is a valuable skill.
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I've had just the opposite experience with my kids: M (now 4) was very much like Jules, speaking in complete (and complex) sentences well before he turned 2. But A (now 22 months)? Not so much. :-) He *understands* most of what we say. But language just doesn't seem to be one of his strengths.

In fact, I've noticed that his dexterity and large motor skills are far beyond what M's were at this age. So I just think that this is more of a testament to their different (perhaps inherent) strengths.
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He is a genius! I love when tiny kids talk.

My mum tells me (so it may be embellished 40 years on!) that she was once stopped in a store by a stranger who looked down at baby me, aged about 22 months and small for my age and asked "does she talk yet"? AI shocked this stranger by relpying "My mummy says we might see a helicopter today"!

My kids a girl and a boy were both early talkers. I'd been warned to not expect my son to talk as early as my daughter, but he is just as fluent. At his 24 months visit when the ped asked if he could speak in two word sentences he said "Look mummy airplane go zoom zoom in da sky !"
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My youngest was just like that. His older brother had Asperger's and we were at an appoitnment with his developmental specialist when the doctor said,"Is that him or his brother?" I said, "It's his brother." He said, "how old is he?" I said "three" and he said "wow he has really great vocabulary! I thought it was Ian (who is 5)." Its great though. And he very musical as well. He has many songs in his repitoire (:O)

@Jill - Jonas speaks perfectly now, but he definitely wasn't signing songs and stuff until at least LATE last summer (around 3.) They wanted us to do Early Intervention for him because his language skills weren't up to snuff. But now he recites the Pledge of Allegiance and sings every song he comes into contact with. He's a SUPER talkative kid - it just took him awhile to get there. Jonas has always been the type of kid that holds back on things until he's got it perfected in his head. He didn't walk until he was 17 months old, but as soon as he did, he looked like he had always been walking. He's complicated like that.

Color me IMPRESSED! Wow. That is so amazing. Actually, I think I remember watching the Discovery Health show and thinking, "Holy cow! That kid talks a lot." Kendall says a lot of single words and the phrase "there it is!" but that's about it. None of this completely formed sentences and questions stuff. And he hasn't even attempted to sing a song back to me. He makes a lot of noises that maybe sound like sentences in his own head, but I lack the ability to translate at this point. So around what age did Jonas really start conversing? Does he talk a lot now? (P.S. I like the spiffy new changes.)
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"Julesy: 'Cuz der not healthy, Mommy?'"

*DIES OF TEH CUTE*

That must be such a trip. Lily's still mostly one word at a time, save for "Hi Mama" and "All done". She's been great on the motor skills, but a little slower in language, though the vocabulary is definitely growing by the day.
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Way to go, Julesy! He's adorable. My 16 month old only says a handful of words (dog, ball, door, na na [banana], mama, dada), but his sounds and babbles have so much meaning. And he doesn't seem to need words right now he communicates what he needs very well with signs. And, I swear he knows how to antagonize his big brother like a pro with just syllables as weapons...for example:

Ben (16 mos.): Ba!
Asher (age 2): don't say ba to me Ben!
Ben (16 mos.): Ba! Ba! Ba!
Asher (age 2): I said don't say ba to me, Benny! don't say ba!
Ben (16 mos.): Ba!

I think Asher said more words at this age than Ben does, but I think Ben knows what he's saying more than Asher did at this age. Does that make sense?

My older son didn't start talking in more than sporadic words until he was nearly 4 years old. I talked to him from birth -- there were just the two of us most of the time. When he hit three and still wasn't interested in talking we started speech therapy, and eventually ended up with him in a special preschool program for children with developmental delays.

Before he entered this program, though, he knew his manual alphabet and signed it along with the ABC song when others were singing, he knew what order his alphabet blocks belonged in and could differentiate between upper and lower case, was putting together 50+ piece puzzles, and built a ramp to get around my babyproofing. So there was clearly much going on in his mind, but it wasn't focused on talking.

Within a three month period of time, though, he went from random words to full-on dissertations. I don't know if it was more exposure to other children (although he had a playgroup 2-3 days a week for several hours), or if he just decided it was finally to his advantage to communicate verbally, but wow once he started talking it was amazing!

My younger son was babbling after me at eight months, had a lot to share by his first birthday, and was holding lengthy conversations with his daycare lady at 20 months. I think he was born wanting to be early. He was walking before he was 10 months old, so the earlier talking kind of fit in with that.

They're both big talkers now. I like to say that with the elder, some kids have so much to say that they'll run out of their allotted word count before they die if they start talking too early... so they delay it a bit :)
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I had always heard that second children spoke later because they got dependent on their siblings to talk for them but that has not been my experience. My younger nephew in particular was a lot like your son, a child you could have a real conversation with before the age of two whereas his older brother was probably pretty average.

I've spent a fair amount of time working with "special needs" kids and I always tell people that unless you're dealing with a genuine delay where kids fall within the realm of "normal" development has a lot more to do with their personality that anything else.

I have a 2 yr old nephew who talks like Julesy. The kid was just born to talk. He had over 40 words when he turned one. Now that he's two, it's those full sentences like you wrote. (Emotionally, though, he's totally two. lol)

I have another nephew (other side of the family) who's 16 mths and has maybe 5 words? They're far less interactive parents, which I think is a lot of it, but I keep telling everyone to relax about it. Some kids just take longer (but I also don't see a concerted effort to go out of their way to help him learn to talk more, which worries me). It's hard - I never want to judge other parents or kids; each kid's journey is different.
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My oldest spoke like that and now #4 does as well. I didn't speak to him much when he was under a year - I think I was shellshocked from new motherhood & we weren't around other people much. I'm sure he heard talking, but it wasn't from me directed at him! At 8 his vocabulary is still super strong. The two year old is chatty, chatty, chatty, recognizing letters and spelling things out and yapping up a storm. She's got the older siblings so her vocabulary includes all sorts of gems like, "shut your pie hole!" and "sheesh!"

#s 2 and 3 were apparently not SO far behind in speaking, but we didn't realize that because of the wordy ease that their older brother had. We had them evaluated by early intervention because they weren't speaking much - they're identical twins and had twin to twin transfusion syndrome - and we just didn't know what was going on. (Heck, we still don't know what's going on with them!)

What's funny is that we tried so hard to speak Spanish with my oldest, and it was going pretty well until we got slammed with the twins, and then we gave up. By the time we were able to come up for air and try to introduce spanish to the girls, they were in this space of, "what? what are you saying? No, it's not, it's an APPLE. DUH."

The biggest problem with a kid that verbally adept at such a young age, I've found, is that we sometimes tend to overestimate their emotional intelligence. Just because my son spoke like a 10 year old when he was 4 didn't mean that he could handle it like a 10 year old when an older kid didn't want to play with him. And in kindergarten and 1st grade he was acutely aware that he was different than the kids in his class, but didn't know how or why. 2nd grade has been a little bit easier - the playing field hasn't necessarily evened out but he has a level of awareness that helps him to grease the social wheels a little better.
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He is just SO adorable too! He's got the full package goin' on! My oldest is a couple months older than him (about 5) and is talking like him, so I am totally jealous. LOL

Yesterday we were in the car coming back from Walmart and I have this oldies CD in my car I periodically rock out to. Well I turned on Barbara Ann by the Beach Boys and he was singing "ba ba ba ba ba ba ba ba" LOL
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I also have a near two year old who was very slow to talk. Now she thankfully talks all day. And I don't mind because it's so damn cute.

We have a toy on the fridge that has the option of French or English. She prefers French. If she starts speaking in French I will have no idea what she's saying.

So far her favourite words are 'shoes' (girl after my own heart), 'cake' (previous comment applies), 'Josh' (her dad's name - that is uber-cute and 'shops' (oh she's such a girl). But recently everything is mummy, mummy, mummy. Particularly when it's accompanied by her arms stretched up and her big blue eyes looking at me I nearly cry. I know I'm a sap.
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